Each project arrives with its purpose, milestones and first tasks written out. Here is how the first three read.
Starting wellbeing and gratitude scores
Positive psychology exercises have modest effects, so without a starting number it is easy to give up on one that is working or keep one that is not. Taking two short, free, validated questionnaires today, one for overall flourishing and one for gratitude, gives a baseline you can retake every three months and compare honestly.
First tasks
- Search for a free validated flourishing or life satisfaction questionnaire
- Complete a short gratitude questionnaire on the same day
- Record both scores, the date and the measure names in one note
- Set a reminder to retake both questionnaires in three months
What gratitude exercises can and cannot do
Popular articles promise that a gratitude list will fix sleep, mood and relationships, while the research shows small, real average gains that vary a lot between people. Reading two or three balanced summaries before starting sets expectations you can keep, and flags the situations, such as depression or recent grief, where gratitude is a supplement to proper support and never a substitute.
First tasks
- Find a review of gratitude research written by a university or research group
- Write down three benefits the evidence actually supports
- List the situations where forced gratitude tends to make people feel worse
- Write one sentence on when you would talk to your doctor instead
Gratitude journal set-up and daily cue
Most gratitude habits fail in the first fortnight because there is no fixed place to write and no moment that triggers it. Choosing one notebook or app, and tying the entry to something you already do every day such as the kettle boiling or brushing your teeth, makes the practice close to automatic.
First tasks
- Choose a notebook or app and put it where you will see it daily
- Write your anchor rule on the first page
- Create a tracker from the habit tracker template
- Count your entries at the end of the second week