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Imposter Syndrome

An evidence file, a weekly wins habit, reframes for the it-was-luck voice, and prepared honest conversations for reviews, vivas, pitches and new roles where feeling like a fraud gets loudest.

Free · Mac (Apple silicon) and Windows · v1.0.0 · Other platforms

Then open the Marketplace in the app, search for Imposter Syndrome, and click Install. It goes into your own files, and works offline from then on.

Before you start: this plan is general information to help you look after your own wellbeing. It is not medical or psychological advice and does not replace a doctor, therapist or counsellor. If you are in crisis, in danger or thinking about harming yourself, contact your local emergency number or a crisis line now.

What it installs.

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Projects

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Starter tasks

🧘 Mental & Emotional Wellbeing

Imposter Syndrome

Working through feelings of being a fraud at work or study with evidence gathering, reframing and honest conversations.

  1. Imposter feelings snapshot and trigger map
  2. Finding your pattern among the five competence types
  3. Accomplishment evidence file
  4. Gathering the written feedback you already have
  5. What you were actually chosen for
  6. Telling one trusted person about the fraud feeling
  7. Luck, effort or skill attribution audit
  8. What competence looks like at your level
  9. Imposter feeling or real skills gap
  10. Friday wins log
  11. Monthly evidence file update
  12. Quarterly specific feedback requests
  13. Monthly doubt check-in with a peer
  14. Quarterly self-review against your role
  15. Debrief after every major deliverable
  16. Monthly things-I-learned log
  17. Annual imposter retrospective
  18. The research behind the imposter phenomenon
  19. Reframing the it-was-luck thought
  20. Accepting a compliment without deflecting
  21. Saying I do not know yet with confidence
  22. Asking questions in meetings without apologising
  23. Describing your work in concrete results
  24. Spotting the overpreparation cycle
  25. Comparing yourself with the visible top one per cent
  26. Capping overwork done to prove yourself
  27. Breaking the delay then cram pattern
  28. Applying for the role you feel unready for
  29. Saying yes to a visible stretch opportunity
  30. Asking for help without feeling exposed
  31. Rewriting your bio in plain facts
  32. Deciding whether to raise doubts with your manager
  33. When imposter feelings need professional support
  34. Performance review without underselling
  35. First talk to an expert audience
  36. Pay or rate negotiation evidence pack
  37. First ninety days in a new role or promotion
  38. Viva or thesis defence preparation
  39. Investor pitch or board meeting preparation
  40. First in your family at university
  41. Starting a PhD or research degree
  42. Being the only one like you in the room
  43. Changing careers into a new field
  44. Founder doubt as a first-time CEO
  45. Leading people who know more than you
  46. Returning after a career break or parental leave
  47. Mentoring someone through their imposter feelings
  48. Running an imposter conversation for your team
  49. Taking on a reviewer, judge or examiner role
  50. Building a public body of work

Where it starts.

Each project arrives with its purpose, milestones and first tasks written out. Here is how the first three read.

Imposter feelings snapshot and trigger map

Fraud feelings rarely show up evenly: they flare before a presentation, after praise from someone senior, or when a peer gets promoted. Noting for two weeks each moment the thought "they are going to find out" appears gives you a map of the five or six situations that set it off, which is where every later project in this area aims.

First tasks

  • Start a phone note titled fraud moments
  • Log each moment the found-out thought appears for fourteen days
  • Group the entries into recurring situations
  • Rate each situation from 0 to 10 and pick the top three

Finding your pattern among the five competence types

Researcher Valerie Young describes five competence rules people hold themselves to: the perfectionist, the expert, the natural genius, the soloist and the superhuman. Knowing which rule you apply tells you what proof you keep demanding of yourself, so a soloist works on asking for help while an expert works on acting before knowing everything.

First tasks

  • Read a short summary of the five competence types
  • Match two recent episodes to the type each fits best
  • Write the hidden rule each type implies for you
  • Pick the project in this area that targets your main type

Accomplishment evidence file

Memory under doubt is selective: one critical comment stays vivid while three years of delivered work blurs. An evidence file holds the facts in one place, with dates, outcomes and who said what, so that when the fraud story starts you can check it against a record instead of a feeling.

First tasks

  • Create the evidence file with four section headings
  • Search your sent mail and calendar for finished work from the last three years
  • Write twenty entries with date, action and outcome
  • Pin the file to your phone's home screen

Make it yours.

Install Imposter Syndrome, then tell Aurum the date you're aiming for. It checks whether the plan fits the weeks you actually have.

Free · Mac (Apple silicon) and Windows · v1.0.0 · Other platforms

Blueprints are general information to help you organise your own work. They are not medical, financial, legal or other professional advice. See the Terms.