Ninety-day pause before big money decisions
Most regret around inherited or windfall money comes from decisions made in the first few weeks, when grief, excitement or other people's suggestions are loudest. Writing a pause rule now, with the few things that are allowed to happen straight away, buys time to think while the money sits somewhere safe. Ninety days is a common default; shorten it for a small sum and lengthen it for a life-changing one.
First tasks
- Write the pause end date and the per-purchase spending limit on one page
- List the two or three things allowed to happen before the pause ends
- Tell your partner or a trusted friend the rule and ask them to check in
- Book a two-hour planning session in the week the pause ends