Wedding vision and each partner's three priorities
Couples often start booking things before agreeing what the day is for, then discover halfway through that one of them cares about the food and the other about the photographs. Each of you naming three priorities and three things you would happily drop gives every later decision a tiebreaker. Do it before the first venue visit, because venues are very good at selling a vision of their own.
First tasks
- Write your own three priorities and three droppable items without conferring
- Swap lists over a coffee and mark where you overlap
- Ask the agent to turn both lists into a one-paragraph wedding vision
- Save the agreed vision at the top of your shared planning folder