Working norms agreement with your first manager
Most early friction in a first job comes from unspoken expectations: how fast to reply, when to ask for help, whether to work late, how your manager likes to hear bad news. One short conversation in the first fortnight, written up afterwards, replaces months of guessing and gives you something to point back to when things get busy.
First tasks
- Write five questions about hours, replies, help, updates and bad news
- Ask your manager for 30 minutes to talk about how they like to work
- Send a short written summary of what you agreed
- Book a calendar reminder to revisit the norms in three months